Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Mighty Queens of Freeville Discussion Questions

Amy Dickinson

Amy Dickinson will be SKYPE-ing in to discuss her bestseller The Mighty Queens of Freeville.  On her website www.mysecondchancestories.com she invites readers to share their second chance stories.  I know that our Pulpwood Queens have many stories to share and perhaps you want to investigate her website.  I'll be giving it some thought to discuss at our next meeting on Sept 29th.

Or perhaps you want to check out her advice column at The Chicago Tribune  "Ask Amy".  I read advice columns all the time, sometimes I find them unbelievable and other times are very close to home.   In today's column she gives advice on "Southern Accents", now who has the accent.  Doesn't it all depend on the home territory and is it rude to say You have an accent?  You will enjoy her replies.  

Here are the advance discussion questions so you can come to the meeting prepared to discuss The Mighty Queens of Freeville meet the Southwest Louisiana Pulpwood Queens!


1.    The author writes, “All roads lead back to my hometown.” Why did Amy Dickinson go home again as an adult?       What do you think she expected to find? What does “going home” mean to you?

2.     Amy writes from the heart, by honestly sharing her childhood joys and disappointments. What qualities resonate with you?

3.     The book contains many second chance stories – both the author’s own and those of the other women in her life. Who in your discussion group has a second chance story to share? What can you ascertain from this real life experience?

4.      “Marriage was just an assumption I had made about my life and I couldn’t simply undo it,” (page 17). Do you think most women assume that they are destined for marriage and motherhood, and that they don’t have options beyond either role? How does this apply to you?

5.     What were some of the good things to come out of Dickinson’s role as single mom? What challenges are unique to these women? How did the author meet, or sidestep, these tests? Dickinson has a complicated reaction to her role as a parent. Do you think she did a good job?

6.     “I knew I was destined to live in New York City,” (page 69). Did you decide your future at a young age? What were you determined to do when you got older? Did you amend your plans? Remember, we can’t go backwards, only forward.

7.     What did you think of the Mighty Queens in Dickinson’s family? What did they teach her? Who are the Mighty Queens in your life? What have you learned from them?

8.     “We are not our best intentions. We are what we do. My husband taught me that,” (page 46). What do you think this statement means? Do you agree with its sentiment?

9.     Amy writes her story using a conversational style, as if she is having a cup of tea with the reader. What was your favorite part of the book?

10.     Dickinson entitles Chapter 7 “Failing Up.” What does this phrase mean in context of the author? What are examples of the author’s “upward failings?” What can we learn from Amy’s experience?

11.     “To me, the two hardest questions to answer have always been, ‘Who am I?’ and ‘What do I want?’” (Page 125). Have you ever asked yourself these questions? How would you answer them today?

12.     Discuss this statement from the introduction: “In my family, the women tend to do all the heavy lifting while the men—well, the men are nice and fine and they love us for a time. Then at some point, it seems they tire of their indeterminate role in our lives, so they wage a campaign of passive resistance, and then they leave.” How is this true for Dickinson and some of her female relatives?  Do you think it’s a self-fulfilling prophesy?

Saturday, September 11, 2010

September Meeting

After a rousing 2 meetings with Ad and ML  I don't know about you, but I am definitely ready to relax and have a gentle easy read and that's what I think The Mighty Queens of Freeville by Amy Dickinson will be.  I just finished it and I found it full of warmth and goodness and people and families helping each other through good times and tough times.  I'm eager to hear what you think at our next meeting.

It will be at Queen Tracey's home, 309 Beauregard Ave, Sulphur on Wed Sept 29. 5 pm.  Amy Dickinson will SKYPE in to visit with us from her front porch in Freeville, NY

We will need a volunteer to be discussion leader

Food:  Besides cake left over from ML which I froze and it's waiting for you,  need  at least 2 volunteers

Some of you have already turned in your scrapbook pages and they are great!  Phyllis H.  has offered to help if you need some assistance.  Bring your completed scrapbook page (complete or incomplete) to our next meeting and let's see what it will look like all put together.

We will also be collecting between $5-$10 per member  for the extra expenses for the past 2 meetings.   Bring your dollars and your receipts to the meeting and we'll settle up. 

Also, this is a biggie,  Ad and ML both asked that if you care to please leave a review on amazon.com or any other site that allows reviews.  It helps with their publishers and marketing people.  Speaking of Amazon, we already have earned $10 + for next year's trip to Nicaraugua.

 Thanks for being such awesome members.  ML said she was so excited about coming to visit with us because we are a FUN group and she thoroughly enjoyed meeting each of you!

A Tip of the Tiara to you all!

Queen Kay